Want to give that special someone a sex toy for Christmas but there’s too much choice? We’ve got you. Scroll down for our curated list of Christmas sex toys that make the perfect gift that says I love you, and I want to give you an orgasm.
How to pick the perfect gift
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The trick to picking the right sex toy Christmas gift is picking something they want – not something you want. If they’ve tried a wand and love it but want more intensity, get them an upgrade. If they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex, get a toy that can sit between your bodies during sex. If they really like having their prostate stimulated, maybe a prostate massager with a ring that keeps it in place. Have they said they never want to explore anal sex? Maybe don’t get them a booty toy. Fundamentally picking the right gift starts with communication and listening to what your partner loves and fantasises about.
If you don’t know, that’s okay, it’s never too late to find out! You can also do something as simple as sharing this article with them and see if they agree with our picks, or just say “Hey, I’m thinking of getting you a sex toy for Christmas – would you like that?” You could even browse our site together and see what excites them.
Read more: What we know about your sexual fantasies by Laura Lee.
Should you give a sex toy for Christmas?
If it’s your partner, lover, or friend with benefits and you have a strong relationship – absolutely. If it’s a friend and you’re giving it to them with no expectation that you’ll be involved in its use, sure. If it’s that person you follow online and they don’t know you exist? Don’t do it. Context matters, and we’re all adults here – we trust that you know when it’s appropriate and when it isn’t.
With that said, here’s our list of very giftable Christmas sex toys:
Unisex Christmas Sex Toys
The following options are great for anyone, regardless of their gender identity, sexuality, or physicality.
Wild Secrets Sensual Massage Oil
Yeah, it’s the first pick and we’re already cheating, but our sensual massage oil is affordable, sexy, and is a great choice for someone who likes getting a sexy massage. Which in our experience is just about everyone! It’s a great gift for your partner as it comes with the implicit offer of you giving them the massage. You could even add in a coupon redeemable for a sexy massage on a night of their choosing from you. It’s also discreet, it doesn’t require you to know what they like when it comes to toys, and it’s giving you both an experience over a product. For something even more special, pair it with some bubble bath for a truly indulgent care package.
But if you know your partner does want a toy, maybe consider the
Palmpower Extreme Wand Massager
This one almost slipped past our radar and the truth? One of our staff gave a sample piece to a friend who raved about it so much it’s now here. The Palmpower Extreme is a powerful wand in hot pink with plain packaging, but it shines as one of the most body and disability friendly products we have on site. And we didn’t realise it until we got positive feedback. The angled design of the Palmpower Extreme means it’s great for larger bodies, and people with arm and grip issues can rest it on their body without losing contact. The handle also transmits fewer vibrations than most other wands, so if that’s a concern, this is a great choice.
If you want something a bit more luxe and fully sized, there’s also our Wild Secrets Glow. It lasts forever on a charge and similarly keeps the vibrations in the head of the wand. Right where they belong.
We-Vibe Temp
We think the We-Vibe Temp is one of the most underrated toys we have on site. Temperature play is a very pleasurable and stimulating way to spice up your sex life and we highly recommend it. And yes, you can put a glass or metal dildo into warm or cold water, or get ice cubes out of the fridge. But that takes planning. If you want to be able to enjoy a bit of spontaneous temperature play, the Temp gives it to you with a little metal plate on the side of a silicone vibe that goes hot or cold at the press of a button. Plus, it vibrates. If you do decide to go with hot water or ice though, you might want
A Splash Blanket
A washable, waterproof throw blanket that holds up to a litre of water and keeps the mess off your bed? How does anyone not have one yet? Use it for sex, use it for squirting, use it to keep wine stains off your white couch. You can even use it on your pet beds.
And sure, not a sex toy, but it’s a great option for everyone who’s had anything ever seep through that towel you put down.
Read more: The Splash Blanket, reviewed by Melissa Vranjes.
A Butt Plug (or 2)
Of every gift in this section, this is probably the option that you need to know your gift recipient is going to be open to. That said our anal sex blog posts were some of the most popular this year, so it’s worth considering. The anus is full of nerve endings everyone can enjoy stimulating, and obviously for men, the prostate is an amazing source of pleasure. Women can also enjoy anal stimulation or just enjoy how using a butt plug makes vaginal sex feel tighter and more intense.
We have a range of butt plugs you can choose from, but we rate this cheeky pink set from Calexotics (or this blue option) as an approachable, beginner friendly gift that isn’t too hard on your bank account. Or their butt.
Christmas Sex Toys For Her
If you’re buying a Christmas gift for the special woman in your life, here’s our picks for this silly season – from budget and beginner friendly all the way up to luxurious statement pieces that are genuinely worth the price.
Calexotics Contoured G-Spot Vibrator
Sure, we could have recommended a bullet vibrator, but here’s a secret: a G-Spot vibe can do almost everything a bullet vibe does. Plus it can hit your G-Spot. The Contoured G from Calexotics is affordable, made of quality silicone, and is a great, beginner friendly toy. If you want a more luxurious option, we recommend the Lelo Mona Twist that offers super plush silicone, a twisting rib for internal stimulation, and some very intense vibrations as you’d expect from Lelo.
Wild Secrets Enchant Rabbit Vibrator
It’s not our newest rabbit vibe, but we love our Enchant. And if your girl is one who needs an air pulse or suction toy, this is the rabbit you want. It’s powered by Satisfyer and has a slight flex and blunt head that offers orgasmic dual stimulation. It’s even USB-C rechargeable so don’t need to keep special separate charging cables anymore.
As a bonus, the Enchant is also great for trans women who’ve had bottom surgery. How do we know? One of our toy testers self-reported as trans in the feedback (we don’t ask) and said it was her favourite toy ever and worked every time.
If your girl doesn’t swear by suction and wants a really powerful ride, we recommend our Dream 2 rabbit which has its digital screen discreetly hidden beneath the silicone. And it stands to dry.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 4
Did the Satisfyer Pro 2 need another upgrade? Maybe not, but ‘need’ is a strong word. The Gen 3 and Gen 2 are still available on site and work amazingly well. The Gen 4 offers a wider range of intensities, and one of the new caps is specially designed for women who are very sensitive down there. So, if she’s tried a Pro 2 before and found it too intense – or not intense enough – this is the one for her.
For a more charming option, try the Satisfyer Modern or Classic Rose. They’re both adorable, great for gifting, and look a lot more approachable. And sometimes that’s the point.
Adam & Eve Sweetheart Swirl Glass Dildo
The thing about a good glass dildo is that most people love them when they’ve tried them, but most people won’t get one for themselves. Why? Because glass looks simple, costs a bit more, and people underestimate how intense it is. Glass has no flex, so when you clench down around it, you feel everything. Every single bump, ridge or curve as is presses into you.
The Sweetheart Swirl is a clear glass dildo with a swirl of luxurious red through its centre, making it a beautiful gift. We recommend getting a nice box with a fabric inlay and just popping it inside for that extra special touch.
One thing we would say is that this dildo doesn’t have a substantial flare to its design, so we recommend not using it anally. If you want for a glass toy for anal play, consider our Wild Secrets Glimmer.
SVibe Curve Rolling Rabbit Vibrator
“How does it work?” we hear you ask. The answer is very, very well. Essentially, the Curve is a rabbit vibe with a rolling clitoral stimulator. You get to thrust the long shaft inside and hit exactly the right spots, while the external arm unrolls or rolls up so it’s always in full contact with your clitoris. And if that doesn’t quite make sense in your head, our friend Melissa Vranjes has a video that explains it.
SVibe has been selling out globally, so if we still have some when you’re reading this and your partner doesn’t own one – get one. It’ll be worth it.
Zalo Calla Double Ended Vibrator
The Zalo Calla lily vibrator is one of the most stunning vibrators we’ve ever seen. Not only does it look like a flower, all parts of the flower work and give you different stimulation. The stamen vibrates and offers pinpoint stimulation – and is great for the clitoris, while the petals softly press back against the rest of your body like a vibrating feather. Finally, the stem is insertable as a slender G-spot wand.
If she loves beautiful things or needs a vibrator that’s super discreet and beautiful, get her the Calla.
Read more: Stocking my personal pleasure toolbox by Kate Manning.
Fun Factory Volta
It’s a much-loved clitoral vibe with fluttering tips and an ergonomic handle, but the Volta makes this list because not only is it amazing for cis women, it’s also a favourite of trans women who haven’t had bottom surgery. Hormone therapy for trans women does things to their penises, and at some point erections become harder or impossible. And from what we’ve been told, trans women facing that predicament swear by the Volta to help get them off. If you’re looking for a gender affirming gift for your trans partner or friend, this is another option for you.
Christmas Sex Toys For Him
Sex toys for men can be more than just Fleshlights – although if he collects them, Bonnie Blue came out this year and he might not have hers yet. But if you want to give him something better and more interesting than his hand, here’s our suggestions for something truly unique.
Wild Secrets Crave 2 Vibrating Masturbator
Our new and improved Crave 2 is powerful, pleasurable and hides discreetly in his bedroom. It’s not a water bottle, or a shampoo bottle, but instead looks like a Bluetooth speaker. It rocks dedicated suction and vibration features, an intensely textured internal sleeve, and disassembles easily for cleaning. If the guy you’re buying for loves his tech – this is the one to buy.
JO H2O Juicy Pineapple Lube
Okay, bear with us, what you’re really gifting with flavoured lube is the promise of a blowjob. Not everyone likes the taste of cock or pre-ejaculate and a good, flavoured lube can really help there. Even if you do enjoy giving a blowjob, lube helps make the entire experience slicker, easier and more fun. And it encourages you to find all the little bits of flavour left on his skin – which feels amazing for him too!
We think JO’s pineapple lube is criminally underrated as a flavour, but if you want some variety we also love their white choc raspberry and green apple options. We also rate Wet Stuff’s salted caramel and mint flavoured lubes.
Tenga Flip Zero
The Tenga Flip Zero features a lot of innovative design you might overlook at first glance. And it really makes a difference. Rather than a tube of rubber you’re pushing into that just feels weirdly tight and not very arousing, the Flip Zero is easy to enter, and lined with very stimulating nubs and ridges. It can take a moment to adjust to the stimulation but it’s a superior pleasure experience to the average stroker. Best of all, its clamshell form flips open for easy lube application and cleaning, and then seals almost perfectly shut when you want to use it. You end up with less lube mess, a tighter, more intense stroke, and no buzzy motor sounds.
If you need a more budget friendly option and don’t mind it not being as high tech, Tenga do make their famous Air Tech strokers.
PDX Reach Around
Yeah, we’re surprised to see this on our giftable Christmas sex toys list too, but our Wild Secrets Sex Census had a lot of men asking for a stroker they could enter that could then go into their partners. They wanted something that would feel great for both of them. And as it turns out, that’s exactly what you get from the Reach Around. Sure, it might be intended as a toy for gay men, but the sensation of sliding into a pleasure ridged love tunnel and looking down at a larger penis is going to tick a lot of boxes for men of all sexualities. And partners of all genders can appreciate a larger, more filling ride.
The Reach Around is crafted from TPE, so we do recommend using condoms over it if it’s going to be penetrating multiple partners, but it’s a truly unique product that doesn’t have many alternatives on the market.
Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager
The Lovense Edge 2 recently reviewed well in our test of long-distance sex toys, and we are no longer sleeping on Lovense! The Edge 2 comes with some seriously powerful vibes and is suited for advanced users looking for something with a bit of power. Our reviewer also highlighted the size differential between the plug and the neck making it sit more securely than a lot of beginner toys. As a premium product for your long-term lover who loves prostate stimulation, the Edge 2 is where it’s at.
If you’re after an equally luxe but more beginner friendly product, check out the Lelo Hugo 2, and the Wild Secrets Wonder if you’re after something that’s more budget friendly but still very giftable.
Lelo Loki Wave 2 Come Hither Prostate Massager
The Lelo Loki Wave 2 makes this list again as the best come-hither prostate toy available for men. It’s almost more a couple’s toy, as it benefits greatly from having a partner hold the handle, but even so, it’s definitely worthy of inclusion. You might need to play around with depth a little to get the tip of the vibrator right on his prostate, but you’ll know when you’ve got it right. You both will.
If you’re on a budget, you can try the new Pipedream Ass-Gasm Pro which includes an attached cock ring to keep it in place – it just trades out some of the luxury of the gift.
Calexotics Pop Socks Textured Stroker
Tucked away inside our ‘for him’ section are 3 textured Pop Sock strokers from Calexotics designed for trans men. And if you didn’t search for them specifically, you might not have realised they existed. Designed to fit hormone affected trans-masc penises that are too big for clitoral stimulators, the Pop Socks give you or your trans-masc lover what every cis-man can get – a male stroker that fits and just works.
Read more: An introduction to sex toys for men.
Christmas Sex Toys for Couples
Looking for something to enjoy together? We can help. And while some of the gifts we’ve already mentioned are great for couples, the following gifts give both of you something new and exciting to enjoy.
Wild Secrets 24 Piece Advent Calendar
It’s a full beginner’s collection in a keepsake box that would cost hundreds if you were to buy each piece individually. Plus, they’re all individually wrapped for an extra surprise. Yes, it’s an advent calendar, but how you access and interact with it is entirely up to you. If you’re a fan of early Christmas presents, this is one gift we recommend opening early as a reminder to make time for each other during the holiday season.
If you’re just starting out and are overwhelmed by choice and not sure what to do, a curated collection like this could be exactly the Christmas sex toy gift you need. We also have a beginner’s guide to the Wild Secrets Advent Calendar written by our friend Melissa Vranjes to get you started!
On a tighter budget? Check out the Enchanted Evenings Advent Calendar from Adam & Eve. It’s 12 pieces compared to our 24, but it’s easier on the budget.
SVibe Jovi Couple’s Ring
We’ve struggled to keep the SVibe Jovi Couple’s Ring in stock this year, and with good reason! This flexible silicone sex toy is designed for both opposite sex and same sex male couples with a dual ring system that keeps him harder for longer, while an elongated vibrating tail sits on top of his shaft which stimulates the G-spot or prostate, while the rolling external arm keeps in constant contact with the clitoris – or perineum. If you read over the SVibe Curve in the ‘Christmas sex toys for her’ section and wanted that but during partnered sex, this Jovi is the toy you want.
If you’re after a more budget friendly option, try the Adam & Eve Rocking & Rolling Couple’s Stimulator, and if you need something adjustable, we recommend either the Dame Hug or the Wild Secrets Thrill.
Clone-a-Willy Vibrating Penis Casting Kit Plus Balls
You already know what this is and yes, it’s a very fun time. If you’ve ever wanted two of him, this is how you get it. Just remember you need to keep him hard while he’s inside the mould. And he’ll want to be shaved down there before doing this. Having the mould mixture tug out pubic hair is painful and we don’t recommend it. Don’t ask how we know.
There’s a range of Clone-a-Willy kits for all budgets, from this full deluxe version to simpler, non-vibrating options, to ones that glow in the dark.
Adam & Eve Naughty Date Night 5 Piece Couple’s Kit
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life, we always recommend looking for novelty – for something to break you out of the same routine so you don’t sleepwalk your sexytimes towards an unfulfilling orgasm. And the Adam & Eve Naughty Date Night Kit gives you a little wand, a blindfold, a set of sex dice, and a butt plug to try out. Plus a carry case to keep them all in.
We love this set because it encourages exploration with sensual products you might not otherwise buy, and dice to add an element of random chance to your love life. Sure you can buy erotic dice sets individually, but we love the way this kit feels like a complete sexy Christmas gift.
Master Series Pleasure Poker Textured Glove
This is the second product we’re surprised to be including here. But hear us out. Yes, the glove looks really funny, but this is one of those products that just keeps making its way into the rotation because it offers amazing sensations. It’s also easy to use. Just put it on and touch your partner, and see how they react to all the different textures on your fingers. Trust us when we say it’s a delight.
One of our sexologist friends told us privately that this has been a surprise for them and their partner, and one they keep returning to as well.
It’s definitely a choice, but if you and your partner are adventurous people, it could be worth a try.
SVibe Gizi Duo
The Gizi Duo from SVibe makes this list as an exceptional product created for lesbian couples that isn’t just a strapless strap on. The Gizi Duo lets you both experience internal and external stimulation while using the same toy – and without one of you having to grip down really hard or use a harness. That said if you do want a strap on experience for same sex fun or pegging, we recommend our Wild Secrets Joy.
Read more: Getting started with sex toys for couples by Kate Manning.
And that’s it! Our curated list of very giftable Christmas sex toys you can get right now – and in many cases on sale. If you didn’t find what you were looking for, check out our current sale assortment. There’s lots to choose from and we’re sure something will catch your eye.
