How To Choose The Perfect Present

Top 10 Christmas gifts for her, him and couples

We’re in the biz of bringing adults joy, so we know a thing or two about what makes a great gift. Get it right this Christmas with our ultimate guide to finding the perfect present.

Whether you’re buying something for her, for him or to share, or a special treat just for you, use our expert advice to make your gift memorable for the best reasons.

In this Christmas gift guide, you’ll find:

  • Top 10 gift categories
  • Top 10 toys for her
  • Top 10 toys for couples
  • Top 10 toys for him
Couple opening gift
There’s nothing like an exciting toy to put a smile on someone’s face.

With so many exciting sex toy options, it can be difficult to know what to choose, especially if you’re shopping for someone else. We say, go for as many as your budget allows! After all, our sexual needs and desires vary so having a toy box filled with diverse goodies ensures you or your gift recipient will have what they need when they want it.

Our sexual needs and desires vary so having a toy box filled with diverse goodies ensures you or your gift recipient will have what they need

If you are buying a sex toy for someone else this Christmas, think carefully about whether they would be open to it. Sex toys can be part of a healthy adult sex life, but it takes some people longer to warm to the idea than others. If that might be the case for your intended giftee, discuss the present with them first and go for something beginner friendly.

Also remember it’s a myth that sex toys are only for people who have a problem of some sort.

Sex toys are for any consenting adult who wants to have more fun, whether it be alone or with a partner. They are a safe way to go on a journey of exploration and discovery leading to greater sexual enjoyment, self-confidence and body positivity.

Sex toys are for any consenting adult who wants to have more fun, whether it be alone or with a partner

So where should you start? Browse our top 10 lists in this Christmas guide and see what piques your interest.

Before purchasing, double check the size, materials and other features of the products to make sure they would suit your recipient. If you’re buying a toy don’t forget to include water-based lubricant and toy cleaner for the most pleasurable and easy play sessions start to finish.

Woman with wand
Toys really are gifts that keep on giving, enhancing sexual wellness with every use.

Top 10 Christmas gift categories

1. Clitoral Vibrators

Designed to target the clitoris, these toys can vibrate or deliver oral-like sensations using air wave technology for an incredibly intense and fast climax.

2. Rabbit Vibrators

It’s double the fun with rabbits, as the shaft massages a woman internally and an external attachment shaped like bunny ears tickles her clitoris.

3. G-Spot Vibrators

These toys target her g-spot with a combination of vibration and a curved head. They can also have other features such as rotation, pulsation or thrusting for more dimensions of sensation.

4. Bullet Vibrators

Essentially small cylindrical vibrators, bullets are perfect for precisely stimulating outer hot spots, such as the clitoris, nipples, shaft, scrotum or perineum.

Bullet vibrator
Bullet vibrators are ideal for beginners and those seeking discreet, compact toys.

5. Massagers

Also called ‘wands’, these vibrators deliver broad stimulation to external erogenous zones and are ideal for all-over body massage and soothing sore muscles.

6. Couples’ Rings

Despite the name, couple’s rings can be used solo too for men seeking harder, prolonged erections. What makes couple’s options unique are the addition of vibration or texture for simultaneous partner stimulation.

7. Masturbators

An essential in every man’s collection, masturbators range from simple handheld strokers to automated, hands-free toys that can have nondescript or lifelike entries.

Woman in lingerie
Sensual lingerie is one of the sexiest gifts of them all.

8. Prostate Massagers

Designed to target his prostate, these massagers are men’s equivalent to g-spot vibrators. They can be wand-like or L-shaped to please his perineum simultaneously.

9. Bondage Gear

There’s a bondage toy to suit every adult at every relationship stage. From simple blindfolds and restraints, through whips, paddles and crops, to slings and swings, kinky toys will spice up any scenario.

10. Lingerie

Whether it’s seductive and sexy or fun and flirty, there is a lingerie style to suit everyone. Babydolls are short, floaty dresses perfect for just about all body shapes. To highlight curves, figure-hugging chemise dresses are ideal as are teddies and bodysuits which have a connected bralette-style top and panty. To showcase more skin, go for a bra and panty set. A glamourous gown or robe pairs beautifully with almost any lingerie style then all that’s left are gorgeous hosiery and sky-high heels to complete the look. Don’t forget there’s sexy wear for him too.

Top 10 toys for her this Christmas

Her toys
Toys 1 to 5 in our top 10 for her.

1. Womanizer Duo Rabbit Vibrator

Womanizer’s Duo combines clitoral stimulation using air wave technology with rumbly vibrations in the flexible g-spot targeting shaft for brilliantly blended orgasms. (Item Code: T1218WMZ)

2. Satisfyer Pro 2 With Vibration

For women who want supercharged oral simulation, Satisfyer’s Pro 2 With Vibration is the clear choice. Air wave clitoral stimulation and vibration can be enjoyed independently or simultaneously for pleasure with maximum intensity. (Item Code: T0030STF)

3. Lelo Ora 3 Clitoral Vibrator

Lelo’s glamourous Ora 3 stimulates the clitoris with multiple vibration patterns and an internal node that swirls like a tongue. It’s also super-discreet making it her best kept secret. (Item Code: T1122LELO)

4. We-Vibe Rave G-Spot Vibrator

Rave by We-Vibe has a deliberate asymmetrical shape to find her g-spot with ease. It’s also compatible with We-Vibe’s app so she can customise her vibration and intensity settings. (Item Code: T1078WEVE)

5. Lelo Soraya Wave Rabbit Vibrator

Lelo’s luxurious Soraya Wave delivers a blended climax with style like no other. WaveMotion Technology allows the shaft to mimic ‘come hither’ fingers while the flexible stimulator pleases her on the outside. (Item Code: T1127LELO)

Her toys
Toys 6 to 10 in our top 10 for her.

6. Le Wand Petite Rechargeable Vibrating Massager

Le-Wand’s Petite Rechargeable Vibrating Massager is small in size but big in power, with a flexible neck that fits bodily curves while delivering deep, rumbly vibrations. It’s perfectly travel-sized too. (Item Code: T0008LWD)

7. Fifty Shades Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator

There’s nothing wrong with wanting it all! The Fifty Shades Rabbit Vibrator delivers g-spot and clitoral pleasure with 36 vibration combinations, a girthy shaft, bulbous head and flexible ears. (Item Code: T0030FSD)

8. We-Vibe Tango Mini Vibrator

It looks like a lipstick but offers a lot more fun. Tango by We-Vibe is a powerful mini vibrator designed for precise external stimulation where she needs it most. (Item Code: T1073WEVE)

9. Womanizer Liberty Clitoral Stimulator

For discreet fun at or away from home, Womanizer’s Liberty is the perfect choice thanks to its clever cover. It puts intense, repeated clitoral orgasms in easy reach by harnessing Pleasure Air Technology. (Item Code: T1221WMZ)

10. Jopen Audrey Vibrating Butt Plug

This glitzy butt plug by Jopen is ideal for women who enjoy a booty-gasm. Audrey features multiple vibration settings, a handy remote control, and dazzling crystal accents for a glam touch. (Item Code: T1328JOP)

Top 10 toys for couples this Christmas

Couple's toys
Toys 1 to 5 in our top 10 for couples.

1. We-Vibe Chorus Wearable Vibrator

We-Vibe’s Chorus is a remarkable piece of sextech, delivering clitoral, g-spot and partner stimulation when she wears it during sex. The remote responds to the squeeze of your hand while app-compatibility allows for customised vibration and more. (Item Code: T1088WEVE)

2. Satisfyer Multifun Vibrator

Multifun by Staisfyer is a unisex and couple’s vibrator with a flexible U-shaped head that you can rotate into different positions to stimulate external erogenous zones while the handle can be inserted vaginally or anally. (Item Code: T0055STF)

3. We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibrator

For a wild night out, We-Vibe’s Moxie does the trick. This vibrator stays in place in her panties thanks to a magnetic clip, while the clitorally stimulating vibrations can be controlled via remote or smartphone app. (Item Code: T1072WEVE)

4. Doc Johnson Tryst 2 Couple’s Vibrator

Tryst 2 by Doc Johnson is a versatile vibrator that can be used for external stimulaton, shallow penetration, or erection support when worn as a cock ring. Just bend the flexible arms as you wish. (Item Code: T1908DOJ)

5. We-Vibe Wand Vibrator

The We-Vibe Wand delivers powerful vibrating massage and can be used with the clitoral or stroking attachments to tease and please him or her. It’s also app-compatible for added options. (Item Code: T1086WEVE)

Couple's toys
Toys 6 to 10 in our top 10 for couples.

6. Strap U Vibrating Strapless Strap On

Whether she’s pegging him or penetrating her female partner, Strap U’s Vibrating Strapless Strap On delivers mutual pleasure. A bulb sits inside the wearer’s vagina leaving the longer shaft ready to penetrate. There’s also a remote so either can take control (Item Code: T0015TPU)

7. We-Vibe Verge Vibrating Couple’s Ring

Verge by We-Vibe encourages harder, prolonged erections while stimulating his partner’s clitoris. He can even angle it to tickle his perineum. Verge is also app-compatible for more customised fun. (Item Code: T1082WEVE)

8. B-Vibe Vibrating Butt Plug

Adventurous couples take booty play to more exciting levels with B-Vibe’s Vibrating Butt Plug as three motors amp up the sensations and a remote control allows for surprises. (Item Code: T0014BVB)

9. Mistress Isabella Sinclaire Leather Restraints

Couples can explore power dynamics with ease using Leather Restraints by Mistress Isabella Sinclaire. They can be worn on the wrists or ankles and use their own weight to cinch tight. (Item Code: T0002ISA)

10. Ouch! Advanced Bondage Kit

This Advanced Bondage Kit from Ouch! includes 18 toys to really heat up the action. The kit includes  a range of toys for restraint, impact and sensory play, as well as sexy dice and more. (Item Code: T0090OUC)

Top 10 toys for him this Christmas

Men's toys
Toys 1 to 5 in our top 10 for him.

1. Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit

For the man who loves tech, Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit delivers. This deluxe masturbator allows sonic waves to permeate deep into his shaft so they feel as though they’re resonating pleasurably from everywhere at once. (Item Code: T1116LELO)

2. B-Vibe x Le Wand Anal Massage & Education Set

This 10-piece set from B-Vibe and Le Wand will guide him through the fundamentals of anal massage and education for greater pleasure alone or with a partner. Hero products include the Le Wand Petite Massager, Le Wand Petite Curve Attachment, shaped for p-spot stimulation, and weighted B-Vibe Snug Plug 2. (Item Code: T0031BVB)

3. Bathmate Hydromax7 (X30) Pump

Give him the gift of increased size, girth and power with Bathmate’s Hydromax7 (X30) Pump, which uses water to deliver real results. It has a convenient measurement guide printed on the side and is simple to use, especially in the shower. (Item Code: T1027BAT)

4. We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Ring

We-Vibe’s Pivot is equally suited to solo and couple’s play. Worn at the base of his shaft, the stretchy ring is designed to prolong erections and intensify orgasms with its firm fit and rumbly vibrations. There’s also an app for customised play. (Item Code: T1077WEVE)

5. ZOLO Blowpro

If he’s tempted by soft supple lips and an open mouth, Zolo’s Blowpro is perfect. This ultra-realistic masturbator simulates oral with the addition of dynamic rotating beads for enhanced stimulation. (Item Code: T0027ZOL)

Men's toys
Toys 6 to 10 in our top 10 for him.

6. We-Vibe Vector Men’s Massager 

Vector by We-Vibe is designed to fit each unique wearer thanks to the adjustable head and flexible base that comfortably target his p-spot and perineum. It’s remote-controllable and app-compatible so customised vibes are only a touch away. (Item Code: T1074WEVE)

7. Zolo Zeppelin

Zeppelin is a deluxe masturbator from Zolo that offers style and substance. It features a soft, slip-and-slide interior with ultra-realistic textures plus intense rotation for enhanced stimulation. (Item Code: T0028ZOL)

8. B-Vibe Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug

B-Vibe’s Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug provides as easy foray into backdoor play, with its small size and tapered tip. There’s plenty of fun to be had, with multiple vibration options and a remote control. (Item Code: T0013BVB)

9. Satisfyer Men Wand

The Satisfyer Men Wand features two flexible, subtly textured wings that wrap tightly around his shaft while super-powerful vibrations massage him to an incredible climax. Just hold onto the handle and go – it’s that easy. (Item Code: T0056STF)

10. Thunderplugs Vibrating & Thrusting Butt Plug

For the man who likes thrusting stimulation, this butt plug from Thunderplugs delivers automated up-and-down action plus vibration in a range of settings. It also comes with a remote for hands-free use or exciting partner play. (Item Code: T0003THN)

Couple exchanging gift
Giving really is as good as receiving, especially when you see the joy that it brings.

Tips for giving your Christmas gift

Now you know how to choose the perfect present, make the gifting experience just as special. Gorgeous wrapping and a thoughtful card – yes, that includes gifts that are only for you – set the tone for the fun that’s about to come.