Gifting is hard, isn’t it? Whether we like it or not, the simple act of selecting a Christmas gift says so much about our relationship with the gift recipient. Or at least, that’s what society tells us. One gift is somehow meant to represent your relationship – and your desires for the relationship. Which is why sex toys and sexy lingerie can feel so attractive. Who doesn’t want to get closer to their partners and more sex?
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The best gifts come from your relationship with the person you’re giving to. And if you’re considering Christmas sex toys we hope you’re buying for your partner, lover or a friend with benefits. That said, giving the gift of an orgasm is a wonderful thing to give a BFF – as long as you’ve talked about it first. In any case, the best gifts are really a piece of you. And shouldn’t come as a shock. This could mean you shop together for presents on our site – it seems to work for a lot of you based on the feedback we get! And if you haven’t had the conversation yet, maybe talk about what you want your Christmas sex to look like this year.
If you just wanted something funny for the office Kris Kringle, you need to read this guide.
Unisex Gift Options
Some Christmas sex toys can work for everybody. Or every body. That said, just because it can work for somebody doesn’t mean it will though. For example, if someone doesn’t like penetrative sex, then they probably won’t want a dildo. Use your best judgement.
Morgan Penn Limited Edition Glow Wand
“Every couple needs this in their toolkit!” – Morgan Penn.
There’s a perception out there that wand massagers are just for women. Possibly because they’re a great toy for just pressing against your entire vulva for amazing stimulation. A wand is more than just a beginner’s toy though – it’s an amazing foreplay option for a sexy, fully body massage for anyone, and the Glow’s large head, powerful motor, and flexible neck lets it go as hard or as gentle as you want.
Morgan’s limited edition Glow comes in pearlescent pink, but you can get the Glow in Wild Secrets purple or mint too!
Flickering Touch Massage Candle – Vanilla & Crème De Cacao
Speaking of massages, we’re all about naturally scented candles setting the ambience for some Christmas sex. The soft light of a flickering flame sets the ambience instantly, and if you get a massage candle, you can blow it out and use the oil for a super yummy massage. We have a range of candles on site, but this one has been tested and approved for shower sex, so it’s top of our recommended list. If you are going looking though our site, just make sure you get a massage candle if you’re after the sexy massage element. All candles provide light, but our drip candles are designed for BDSM wax play, and aren’t good for massages.
Starstruck Handheld Vibrator
This little vibrator is a foreplay and shower sex wonder, and if you’re looking for something Morgan Penn approved but a little bit smaller than the Glow Wand, this could be the one for you. It has a broad surface area for stimulating large areas of the body, is made of silky smooth silicone, and is easily held between the fingers as well making it an option for some people with physical disabilities too.
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Orchestra 6 Piece Pleasure Collection
Ready to dip your toe into the world of kink? The Orchestra is our introductory kit for bondage, restraint and sensation play, and it’s a great gift if those are things you both want to explore. Unlike the other products in this section the Orchestra is really a couple’s gift as it’s a little difficult to enjoy it solo, but it’s truly unisex, so we’ve included it here.
Read more: A symphony of sensation with the Orchestra Pleasure Collection by Kate Manning.
Giftable Christmas Sex Toys For Her
Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, like to watch, or just want to give a girlfriend a proper orgasm, she won’t be disappointed with these sexy options.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 with App Control
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the world’s #1 best selling sex toy for a reason, and the Pro 2 Gen 3 with App Control is the Rolls Royce version of the toy with all the bells and whistles. Two thirds of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm and the Pro 2 really does deliver! And with a bit of care, you can hold it between you during partnered sex to really take things to the next level.
Lelo Dot Clitoral Vibrator
If she already has a Pro 2 but loves clitoral stimulation, she might like a Lelo Dot. This unassuming little toy was designed to deliver infinite pleasure and multiple orgasms with its elliptical, figure 8 sweeping motion for a range of stimulation so every move is different. And it delivers. In the case of our toy tester Carly Sophia, it delivered 8 orgasms before she fell off the bed. You’re welcome?
“An infinite loop of butt-cramping, sheet-soaking, window-shattering ecstasy, all packaged up in a cute lilac hue with shiny gold accents” – Carly Sophia
Pink Heart Small Vibrating Butt Plug
A butt plug, really? Yes, we know, but hear us out. You know how everyone says the clitoris is a massive pleasure organ and the tip on the outside is only just part of it? A butt plug helps stimulate the wings of the clitoris from the other side during penetrative sex – and in the case of this cute pink plug, it adds vibration too. Vibrating plugs are great for also teasing all those sensitive nerve endings around your butt for extra stimulation, and if you want really intense sensations, you can try a glass plug like this one. Butt plugs are the sex secret sexologists have been raving about all year, so if she’s game for it, maybe try one.
Zest Wearable Vibrating Egg
The Zest is a true wearable vibrator – you can use it in the bedroom as a couple, or it can be worn underneath clothes for to add a cheeky layer of fun to your day – or party at night. It’s honestly been hard to keep it in stock, so we added it as the first gift in this year’s Advent Calendar – and no that’s not a spoiler because they’re all sold out now and if you bought one, we know you’ve opened box 1 by now.
Wait, no rabbit vibes?
We love rabbits, but we had so many of them on deep discounts over Black Friday that we thought you’d like to see other gift options. But if your girl is a fan of dual stimulation and you want to get her something special, try the Wild Secrets Cherish or the SVibe Curve.
Giftable Christmas Sex Toys For Him
Yeah okay, sex toys for cis-het guys can be an issue, especially if they think sex toys are for women and it’s unmanly to enjoy pleasure from a device. We know that isn’t most of you reading this, but on the off chance it is – one thing you can do is by giving him a gift for him that he thinks is for you.
Infinity Ignite Remote Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring
Cock rings are usually about longer lasting erections for longer lasting sex, and to be fair, the Infinity Ignite does just that. It also gives you dual internal and external stimulation while you’re enjoying him inside of you. And he’ll feel some of the vibes on his penis too! Add in the handy remote control and you have the recipe for a good time. Maybe pair it with a note inviting him to a sexy getaway and we guarantee he’ll love it.
And while we mentioned cis-het couples in the intro above, the Infinity Ignite works for gay men too. And given how affordable it is, we think it’s a great Christmas gift. Just don’t tell them how much it didn’t cost.
Evoke Vibrating Stroker
You might be thinking, “A stroker for Christmas, really? Isn’t that for singles?” – and maybe if you bought a Fleshlight for a collector that would be true. The key to this gift is adding a note, or a Christmas card with a little message. Something like “I’ll be using this on you tonight – along with my mouth.” Then see how eager he is for bedroom time. To make it really special, throw in some BJ candy, flavoured lube or both and get ready for a good time.
Prostate Pleaser with Cock Ring
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We’re never quite sure what to call these. We’ve seen them called Cock Locks, Anal Intruder Cock Rings, and a range of other names, but what this basically is, is a prostate massager with an attached cock ring. This combo does a few things. It provides prostate stimulation for some seriously indulgent pleasure, holds itself in place with the cock ring so he doesn’t have to worry about it slipping out, keeps him harder for longer which can be especially useful if your guy is one of many who goes a little soft when his prostate is stimulated, and he can wear it while he’s balls deep in you. All in all, it’s a winner if your man is open to it.
Hugo 2 App Controlled Prostate Massager
If your partner loves getting his prostate stimulated (gay tops, we’re looking at you), the Hugo 2 Prostate Massager is one of the best we’ve ever tried. It is perfectly shaped for easy entry, feels amazing before you turn it on, and the app control give you his moans on tap. We especially like Lelo’s Sense Motion Technology that turns the movement of your phone into vibes on his p-spot!
If sexy underwear is part of your playtime, you can also tuck the external warm of the Hugo 2 into the pouch of a jockstrap to help keep it in place. And maybe consider pairing it with some cuffs to stop him touching himself. You’re welcome.
If you prefer, you can also get the Remote Controlled Hugo 2. Just note that the remote takes batteries and isn’t waterproof.
Gifts for both of you
While any toy can be used with your lover, the gifts options are all designed for two. Whether you’re getting something as a promise for later, or bringing it out during a post-Christmas getaway, here’s some additional options to spice up the holiday season.
4 Piece Satisfyer Advent Calendar
Yes, Satisfyer have a mini advent calendar! Featuring an air pulse clitoral stimulator, just-add-water male stroker, surprise lingerie set and a toy storage bag, we recommend opening everything at once on the night you’ve set aside for each other. You have set at least one night aside for each other, right? If not, grab the calendar and put that in now. Then continue reading.
Calexotics Silicone Foreplay Set
You’ll want to provide your own gift box, but if you’re on a budget, this Silicone Foreplay set is great value. Featuring both an egg vibrator and a couple’s ring, it’s two Christmas sex toys in the one gift! We suggest charging them up and repacking them nicely for the big reveal later on. What we love about the set is these are silicone toys at a budget friendly price. And that they’re specifically designed to get you both hot for each other. In short, you’re the main event – exactly as it should be.
Tiani Duo Remote Controlled Couples’ Vibrator
Oh yes, Lelo’s Sense Motion Technology isn’t just for the boys. The U shaped Tiani Duo is designed to be worn during sex to provide additional clitoral and G-Spot pleasure. In any position you can think of. Really love the idea of a position but it didn’t work out because your bodies didn’t quite line up? That’s not an issue with the Tiani Duo. Plus, Lelo’s boxes are some of the nicest in the industry, and a simple layer of wrapping paper is enough to make this the perfect Christmas sex toy gift.
Joy Vibrating Strapless Strap On
Our Joy Strap On is probably the simplest gift option here, but it’s our top pick for same sex female couples and opposite sex couples with a man who loves prostate pleasure. The Joy allows for a woman to penetrate her partner without needing to put on a harness first. And with an internal vibrator for her that provides stimulation above and beyond the mental kick of watching her partner get off. If you’re a man and know you like pegging, this could be a great gift for your girlfriend.
A quick tip on strapless strap-ons – they do require decent core strength to hold them in. If you haven’t been doing your Kegels, the Joy can be used with a simple O-ring harness to help keep it in place.
4 Piece Couple’s Moment Box
This love box from LoveBoxxx is built around a long, flat vibrator that bends into a U shape so it can be used like the Tiani Duo. And it’s much more affordable. It does give up the ergonomic design and the remote control, but it’s still a winner in our book. What we love is the way it bundles in some 2-in-1 massage lubricant, sensual bodywash, and scented spray to help set the mood. Just add a candle and your favourite playlist and you’re ready for a great night in!
Essentially, the Couple’s Moment box encourages you to take time to connect with your lover both before and after sex. Sometimes we confuse sex and intimacy, and this box gives you a reason to enjoy both.
Christmas 2024 shipping date cutoffs
If you’re shopping for Christmas sex toys right now, you to need to keep shipping times in mind. Australia Post’s cutoffs can be found on their website, but here’s the breakdown for you in terms of when your order needs to be finalised on site. Of course, if you’re planning ahead for Valentine’s Day, go you and please ignore this section.
Australia
For Express Post deliveries to metro ACT, NSW, SA, QLD & VIC: Order by 2PM 23rd December AEDT.
For Express Post deliveries to metro NT, TAS & WA: Order by 2PM 20th December AEDT.
Please note that Australia Post is unable to provide specific delivery cut offs for regional shipping. All you can do is ‘allow additional time’.
New Zealand
Express Post delivery: Order by 12 noon Friday 13th December NZDT.
USA
USA Express Post delivery: Order by 10PM Thursday 12th December EST.
East & South East Asia
Express Post delivery: Order by 2PM Friday 13th December AEDT.
Unfortunately, if you’re anywhere else in the world we can’t help you with last minute Christmas sex toy gifts at time of writing. At least, not any that’ll arrive in time for Christmas itself. But depending on when you’re going to get some time to yourselves, that may not be a bad thing. Either way, happy holidays from us at Wild Secrets, and book some quality time for your loved ones this silly season.
