Best sex toys and lingerie for couples and singles
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Love is well and truly in the air. The countdown to Valentine’s Day is on, and you have an important mission to achieve – finding the perfect gift!
If you’re dating or in a relationship, Valentine’s season is a non-negotiable reason to show that someone special how much you care.
Many are secretly expecting a gift from their loved one and none of us want to disappoint
Regardless of what some might say, many are secretly expecting a gift from their loved one and none of us want to disappoint.
‘But I’m single,’ you might be thinking. That doesn’t matter. You deserve to be shown love too – self-love.
You might even have someone non-romantic in your life who would benefit from a thoughtful Valentine’s gift to remind them how much they are loved.
To help you find the perfect presents for your lover, yourself and perhaps a friend too, we’ve developed Your Valentine’s Gift Guide.
Find the perfect presents for your lover, yourself and perhaps a friend too, with Your Valentine’s Gift Guide
Whether you’re looking for treats for her, him or some that you can share, you’ll find the very best toys, sexy lingerie and more right here.
Explore our Top 5 Valentine’s Gifts in each category: couple’s, her, him and lingerie. Then complete your package with some sexy little extras.
Know what they love
The secret to giving a gift that your recipient will love is to think carefully about their needs and wants. When it comes to adult toys and sexy lingerie in particular, also consider your giftee’s level of experience and comfort with the products.
If the person is new to toys, go for beginner-friendly options that are easy-to-use and non-threatening in size. If they are more experienced toy users, then you might be able to get more adventurous. More functions, bigger sizes, and unusual shapes or uses could make a pleasurable surprise.
If you’ll be sharing the toy with your gift recipient, factor in your own likes and dislikes too. Ideally yours are compatible with theirs, but if not, choose a toy that represents the middle-ground so both of you feel respected, comfortable and ultimately, pleased
In terms of lingerie gifts, think about what your giftee usually wears remembering that everyday clothing might not reflect their bedroom style. Some people enjoy revealing lots of skin with erotic styles behind closed doors, while others prefer leaving more to the imagination, opting for sensual designs.
Of course, you don’t have to keep your gift a mystery until the day it’s given. If you want to make sure your present will be a winner, you can drop hints about what you’re considering or openly ask for suggestions. You might even like to browse your options online together.
Top 5 Valentine’s gifts for couples
1. We-Vibe Chorus Couple’s Vibrator With App & Squeeze Remote
It’s easy to come together every time with We-Vibe Chorus. She wears this luxuriously silky smooth silicone vibrator during sex so both partners are stimulated by deep, rumbly vibes. One end of the C-shaped toys goes in her vagina while the other sits over her clitoris. Take advantage of the squeezable remote, touch-sense modes and smartphone app to get creative each play session.
Gift the We-Vibe Chorus Couple’s Vibrator With App & Squeeze Remote
2. We-Vibe Verge Vibrating Couple’s Ring With App
Also from We-Vibe, the couple’s toy masters, is Verge. This vibrating ring is worn at the base of his shaft (and testicles, if desired) to encourage harder, prolonged erections. As if that weren’t beneficial enough, deep, rumbly vibrations stimulate both partners, and the pointed end can be used to tickle either of them depending on how he positions it.
Gift the We-Vibe Verge Vibrating Couple’s Ring With App
3. Adam & Eve Adjustable Nylon Bed Restraints
Explore those kinky fantasies most of us have with Adam & Eve Bed Restraints. These durable nylon restraints will turn your bed into a super-hot space, with a cuff attached to each end so you or your partner can be held in place while the tickles, teases, punishes and pleases.
They’re easy to use and remove, or if you’re anything like us, just leave them there for every night!
Gift the Adam & Eve Adjustable Nylon Bed Restraints
4. Satisfyer Multifun 3 Vibrator
With 32 possible applications and 100 vibration combinations, there’s a reason Satisfyer called this toy Multifun. Whether you’re in a hetero or same-sex relationship, this silky smooth silicone vibrator vibrator features a lengthy, curved handle and flexible U-shaped head that you can rotate into different positions. Use it to penetrate or tickle whomever and however, even yourself when you’re alone.
Gift the Satisfyer Multifun 3 Vibrator
5. Strap U Evoke Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo
Explore the dynamics of power play with Strap U’s Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo. The wearer inserts the shorter end in her vagina, while the longer end penetrates her male or female partner. A one-touch vibrating bullet sends powerful vibrations throughout this silicone toy for mutual pleasure.
Gift the Strap U Evoke Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo
Top 5 Valentine’s gifts for her
1. Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoral Stimulator
Ooh, the Pro 2. If you haven’t heard of this dream toy from Satisfyer, you’ve been missing out baby. This gorgeous rose gold-coloured masterpiece features a soft silicone rim you place over your clitoris to form a tight seal so that air waves can suck and massage you into oral-like bliss. Strong orgasms? Fast orgasms? Multiple orgasms? Yes. Yes. Yes.
Gift the Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoral Stimulator
2. Adam & Eve Thrusting & Rotating Beaded Rabbit Vibrator
There’s something about beads that ladies just love, and we’re not talking jewellery. This versatile rabbit vibrator from Adam & Eve features rows of rotating beads in the shaft to massage you inside and multiple thrusting speeds for some sex simulation. Add to that the delightfully flickering bunny ears and your clitoris is in for a treat too.
Gift the Adam & Eve Thrusting & Rotating Beaded Rabbit Vibrator
3. Lelo Mia 2 Luxury Bullet Vibrator
Who doesn’t love the finer things? Here’s where Lelo’s Mia 2 really delivers. This luxury bullet vibrator features all you’d expect from the premium Swedish brand, including multiple powerful settings, waterproof construction, durable high-quality materials, USB-recharging functionality and more. It’s also discreetly designed to resemble a slick lipstick. After all, ‘toys that aren’t toys’ are Lelo’s signature style.
Gift the Lelo Mia 2 Luxury Bullet Vibrator
4. Frederick’s of Hollywood Come Hither G-Spot Vibrator
Live the glamorous life with the Come Hither G-Spot Vibrator by Frederick’s of Hollywood. This dual-density silicone vibe features luxurious gold-coloured accents, a pointed tip for thrilling g-spot action as well as seductive ‘come hither’ shaft motion. My ooh my. An easy-to-give gift, it comes with a card, wrapping paper, decorative ribbon, foil sticker and satin storage bag.
Gift the Frederick’s of Hollywood Come Hither G-Spot Vibrator
5. Womanizer Premium Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator
If you want unparalleled pleasure, plenty of variety and a toy that’s so discreet you don’t even need a ‘do not disturb’ sign on your door, this one’s for you. Premium by Womanizer is a clitoral stimulator featuring the brand’s unique Pleasure Air technology, which uses air waves to simulate oral-type sensations. It also boasts Auto Pilot mode which randomly changes settings and Smart Silence so the toy turns off when it’s no longer in contact with your body.
Gift the Womanizer Premium Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator
Top 5 Valentine’s gifts for him
1. Satisfyer Men’s Toy With Heat & Vibration
It’s been likened to warm apple pie, but better. Satisfyer’s Masturabtor With Heat & Vibration features a three-level warming function for sensual comfort, and more than 70 vibration programs that feel like a unique mix of vaginal and oral sex. Slide into the smooth inner sleeve, grip onto the hard case, and get ready for a good, make that really good, time.
Gift the Satisfyer Men’s Toy With Heat & Vibration
2. Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Sonic Wave Men’s Toy
So much has been written about Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Sonic Wave Men’s Toy, and once you experience it, you’ll understand why. Inspired by F1s racing, this sextech toy uses sonic waves that feel like they are resonating from all directions to deliver unique penis pleasure. Put on the included racing gloves, watch yourself through the viewing panel and use the app to track your performance. You’re really in the driver’s seat here.
Gift the Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Sonic Wave Men’s Toy
3. Pipedream Talking, Moaning & Milking Men’s Toy
Let squeezing, spiralling motion stimulate your shaft as breathy moans and dirty talk give you what you want to hear. This masturbator by Pipedream does it all, and there’s even a suction cup base so you can mount it for hands-free fun. Enter the sumptuously soft, stretchy, textured vaginal entry and make your fantasies come to life. Don’t worry about anyone hearing the sex talk – earbuds are included.
Gift the Pipedream Talking, Moaning & Milking Men’s Toy
4. Prostatic Play Rotating & Vibrating Men’s Massager
Imagine receiving simulating massage inside and out, until you reach an explosive high. Prostatic Play’s Men’s Massager will take you there thanks to its vibrating and gyrating shaft and outer stem which buzzes against your perineum. Featuring multiple vibration intensities, pulsation patterns and rotation modes, this smooth silicone toy is made to tease and please with perfection.
Gift the Prostatic Play Rotating And Vibrating Men’s Massager
5. B-Vibe Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug
Discover the brilliance of backdoor play with B-Vibe’s Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug. Perfectly sized to suit newbies, this sumptuously smooth silicone plug features a comfortably rounded tip for easier insertion, narrow stem, and all-important wide base for safety. It also comes with a convenient remote control – hand it to a partner if you dare. Make sure you don’t skimp on water-based anal lubricant and keep your muscles relaxed for maximum pleasure.
Gift the B-Vibe Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug
Top 5 Valentine’s lingerie gifts
1. Mapale by Espiral Hidden Pleasures Bra Set
Demand to be noticed and inspire an adventure with the Mapale by Espiral Hidden Pleasures Bra Set. Wireless cups with peek-a-boo accents and striking lace tantalise, while the low-rise thong flatters your hips. With a lace eye mask and hand cuffs included, this four-piece set is made for passionate play.
Gift the Mapale by Espiral Hidden Pleasures Bra Set
2. Coquette Bordeaux Babe Bustier
In a decadent and enticing design, the Bordeaux Babe Bustier by Coquette uses high-lustre satin and delicate sheer eyelash lace to hug your body and underwire cups to boost your bust. The fully boned construction slims your silhouette and comes with garters you can attach to your favourite thigh highs for a smouldering statement.
Gift the Coquette Bordeaux Babe Bustier
3. Mapale by Espiral Have Heart Chemise
Vivid shades of red combine with romantic embellishments in Mapale by Espiral’s Have Heart chemise. Sheer mesh hugs your curves while a plunging neckline reveals your cleavage and leaves your shoulders enticingly bare. A generous lace hemline brings a touch of romance, while the included matching thong completes the look.
Gift the Mapale by Espiral Have Heart Chemise
4. Coquette Love Note Bra, Garter Belt And G-String Set
Coquette’s Love Note Bra, Garter Belt And G-String Set combines a decadent design with romantic details for classic sex appeal. Crafted from stunning merlot lace, with luxe scalloped trimmings, underwire cups lift your bust, while the mid-rise garter belt and g-string draw attention to your shapely curves. Best of all, they’re adjustable for a perfect fit.
Gift the Coquette Love Note Bra Garter Belt And G-String Set
5. Mapale by Espiral Kissable Bodysuit
Play the sweetheart as flirty and feminine hues work together in the modern design of Mapale by Espiral’s Kissable Bodysuit. Crafted from delicate pink sheer mesh, with passionate red accents, it features a scooped neckline and elaborate criss-cross strappy back. A high-cut bottom lengthens your legs, while a sexy thong back completes this playful look.
Gift the Mapale by Espiral Kissable Bodysuit
Valentine’s sexy little extras
1, 2 & 3. Water-based lubricant, flavoured lubricant & toy cleaner
Whether or not you’re using sex toys, lubricant is a must for intimate activity. When we’re really lubricated we reduce the amount of friction and potential discomfort, in turn increasing our level of comfort and pleasure.
As an incentive to incorporate lubricant into your play, you might like to try a flavoured option
If you’re gifting toys, include a water-based lubricant because it’s compatible with just about all toy materials, as well as a toy cleaner that should be applied before and after each session. If anal play is your thing, there are water-based lubes specifically designed for that as well.
As an incentive to incorporate lubricant into your play, you might like to try a flavoured option. Most are water-based and therefore toy-safe, and they will make you taste amazing too. What’s your flavour?
4. Light bondage accessories
Light bondage accessories can work wonders for spicing up almost any relationship. A simple blindfold and pair of fluffy handcuffs restrict sight and movement, heightening anticipation and sensation for the wearer.
Using bondage gear increases trust and intimacy between you and your partner
Using these toys also increases trust and intimacy between you and your partner because you’ll need to be attuned to each other’s comfort and pleasure. It can also be a simple way to explore power dynamics. Always keep it safe and consensual for a mutually good time.
5. Sex games
If you want to get to know a new partner more intimately, or bring back the heat with a long-term lover, sex games are a tried-and-tested winner. From sexy dice that tell you what to do and where, to card and board games designed to get you sexploring each other’s minds and bodies, these toys can add fun, laughter and kink to foreplay that will bring you closer together.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Now that you’re across the hottest Valentine’s gifts for couples, her and him, it’s time to make your selection. You and your special someone deserve to be loved and feel loved, so give the gifts that keep on giving.
